You are between a rock and a hard place. I've been the ticked off wife so I can understand her sentiments. I had my husband's prize Treeing Walkers rip into my coop of prize Rosecombs, and let me tell you I was ready to kill the entire troupe of dogs right then. I actually had the 30-06 locked and loaded only to have the lead hound give me his big round eyes as I approached. Then he rolls on his back with tail tucked between his legs.
I didn't kill the dogs but I stayed angry for quite some time-blame the Irish in me. To this day I don't know how the @#$! the dogs got out of their yard and into the coop. We finally put up electric wire around the chicken coops. And if I had my way I'd have razor wire all over the place.
Unfortunately, we eventually had to get rid of the hounds because they were more interested in killing chickens than hunting raccoon. It was a rational decision based on the dogs lack of performance. I spayed and neutered the entire lot of them and found suitable non-chicken homes for them.
Our next lot of Treeing Walkers pups were exposed to an aggressive rooster at a young age so they had no use for chickens when they matured. Still, we made sure the chickens were off limits for them.
Anyway, the wife will calm down. If she's a red-headed Irish woman, heaven help ya! Might help if you present her with new chickens-once you get your dog under control.
I am so much the same that it is creepy. My dad's ugly, stupid, spoiled, worthless, Labrador got into the coop and killed 5 chickens and left them scattered all over the place, uneaten. Just played with!
I was literally
begging my dad to either get rid of the stupid dog or just kill it! But, no, my dad kept her. And, hardly a month later, she killed 5 more chickens. They were in the same state as last time: uneaten, just killed and left in the yard! Well, I was fuming now. I was ready to grab a rock, a metal pole, a chunck of wood,
anything, break her head open with it! I know, I know. I sound evil and violent, but I just hate dogs that kill for pleasure! Ever since then, me and
that dog, never get along. I literally never do anything affectionate with that dog. The most I do is feed her because that is my chore. If it was up to me,
that dog would be dead or in the pound.
It will cost you a lot of heartbreak if you keep the dog. She will just kill more chickens, just like
that dog that I just wrote about, and it will be even worse the second time around. I am sorry for the situation.