Don't get me wrong, my MIL is a wonderful woman! We didn't have any argument ever!Well I suppose some have married the wrong person...
My MIL was so stellarly grateful to me...she even gave me a mix master that worked in the holiday trailer we bought...so I could have whipped cream on the waffles we were eating when camping...???
Why was she ever so grateful to me...her son was a long standing bonafied BATCHELOR and I know for a fact...she never thought any woman would be CRAZY enough to take him on and marry him AND part of it was her fault...she taught all her seven children how to care for themselves...cook, clean, etc. Many men get married because they are useless at the homemaking chores.
MIL's that have UNmarried sons...have an obligation to care for them...
That ends when someone is dumb enough to marry them and take the obligation off their hands. Grateful I tell you...thankful, grateful and over joyed...
First time I met her in person, I got smothered in hugs...she did pause once to looked deeply into my eyes to see how crazy I really was but HUGGED...welcomed, pampered and adored.![]()
Benny, you just did not marry a bad enough person...your wife is obviously not an ongoing detrimental obligation to her family.
Nyuck nyuck nyuck...
In fact she is seating right now with my youngest after a nice Shabat diner, she eat with us every Shabat since my FIL was hospitalized.