Joined to find advice/tips on getting a necklace out of my chickens insides :(

[triciayoung]

By all means only the truth. Any lie would come back to hurt you for a long time.

Amen, sister. No lie lives forever.

 

[Jennifer010605]

You have to register for it to be done.

I can’t through that website. Plans might now have to be changed. I might have to call the cops tomorrow, my mom threatened me saying she’s giving the chicken away but instead I can just move out and take it with me. She isn’t going to do that so I’m going to try and call cops to confirm my idea if that’s okay because if she wants to give the chicken who is ALSO mine as well which is a chicken that I’m actually emotionally attached to, it won’t affect my mom at all but it will to me, I’m planning on calling cops tomorrow to see if moving out and taking it is basically giving it away to me. It’s better then giving it away which is all my mom wants smh

 

[tlcmurphy]

I can’t through that website. Plans might now have to be changed. I might have to call the cops tomorrow, my mom threatened me saying she’s giving the chicken away but instead I can just move out and take it with me. She isn’t going to do that so I’m going to try and call cops to confirm my idea if that’s okay because if she wants to give the chicken who is ALSO mine as well which is a chicken that I’m actually emotionally attached to, it won’t affect my mom at all but it will to me, I’m planning on calling cops tomorrow to see if moving out and taking it is basically giving it away to me. It’s better then giving it away which is all my mom wants smh

This is not a Police matter, please don’t call them for something like this.

 

[Jennifer010605]

This is not a Police matter, please don’t call them for something

Reason why I planned to was because there was a report claimed on our chicken who hasn’t done anything or disturbed anyone and is love by many people on our street, in our neighborhood we can have pets as long as they are under 40 pounds and our chicken isn’t even near that. My mom also wanted to get rid of her but she didn’t allow me to move out with it. Calling them was to have them explain to my mom if my mom doesn’t want the chicken but I do, and I want to move out with it I can. My mom wasn’t allowing me to move out with the chicken and said she’s going to give it away wether I like it or not. Calling the cops would have them explain to her I could move out because I’m already 18, almost 19 and that if my mom doesn’t want the chicken I could also take it because it’s partially mine. I’ve been the one treating and taking care of it. Even when we had them as chicks I remember one of them wasn’t eating, I was the one who was patient with it and cured it to eat so it would survive. The other one unfortunately died and just calling the cops would've gave my mom reasoning that I could move out with a pet she doesn’t want anymore that’s also mine. She wanted to get rid of her as revenge and karma towards me because she thinks I’m not making an effort on calling people to allow us to keep the chicken.

 

[FunClucks]

Reason why I planned to was because there was a report claimed on our chicken who hasn’t done anything or disturbed anyone and is love by many people on our street, in our neighborhood we can have pets as long as they are under 40 pounds and our chicken isn’t even near that. My mom also wanted to get rid of her but she didn’t allow me to move out with it. Calling them was to have them explain to my mom if my mom doesn’t want the chicken but I do, and I want to move out with it I can. My mom wasn’t allowing me to move out with the chicken and said she’s going to give it away wether I like it or not. Calling the cops would have them explain to her I could move out because I’m already 18, almost 19 and that if my mom doesn’t want the chicken I could also take it because it’s partially mine. I’ve been the one treating and taking care of it. Even when we had them as chicks I remember one of them wasn’t eating, I was the one who was patient with it and cured it to eat so it would survive. The other one unfortunately died and just calling the cops would've gave my mom reasoning that I could move out with a pet she doesn’t want anymore that’s also mine. She wanted to get rid of her as revenge and karma towards me because she thinks I’m not making an effort on calling people to allow us to keep the chicken.

Um, if you're legally an adult, simply make your plans without telling your mother, and then move out, taking the chicken with you. If you need evidence that she doesn't want the chicken, see if you have text messages to that effect already on your phone or in your email, and keep them for proof in case she changes her mind. No need for drama or fighting, just pack your stuff when she's not around and be gone before she gets back. She'll figure it out, or you can leave a really simple letter. "Mom, I've moved in with so and so. Just wanted you to know."

 

[ShrekDawg]

Um, if you're legally an adult, simply make your plans without telling your mother, and then move out, taking the chicken with you. If you need evidence that she doesn't want the chicken, see if you have text messages to that effect already on your phone or in your email, and keep them for proof in case she changes her mind. No need for drama or fighting, just pack your stuff when she's not around and be gone before she gets back. She'll figure it out, or you can leave a really simple letter. "Mom, I've moved in with so and so. Just wanted you to know."

Exactly. I don’t see what good involving the cops in family drama would do. Especially if they’re legally an adult. Just a waste of the cops time. And honestly I feel like a little bit childish in a way. Not saying that to be mean but it should not be necessary to involve them. Wanna move out, just do it. No need for permission from mom or the cops.

 

[Luv Ducks]

I hope where you are moving to allows chickens, otherwise your Mom could take revenge and turn you in for having it wherever. I am really sorry this has gotten to be so ugly between you and your Mom. Mine lived to be 96 years old and I still miss her everyday. It just seems sad for a Chicken to get in the way of the relationship of a person that has raised you from childhood to adulthood. Good luck with your decision on all of this. I know you love that Chicken just as I do my Ducks and sorry it has had to come to all of this.

 

[Jennifer010605]

Um, if you're legally an adult, simply make your plans without telling your mother, and then move out, taking the chicken with you. If you need evidence that she doesn't want the chicken, see if you have text messages to that effect already on your phone or in your email, and keep them for proof in case she changes her mind. No need for drama or fighting, just pack your stuff when she's not around and be gone before she gets back. She'll figure it out, or you can leave a really simple letter. "Mom, I've moved in with so and so. Just wanted you to know."

I never called the cops and it wasn’t going to be called on her. I was just angry and very frustrated with her thoughts at the moment because she was being ignorant to what we were told about the pet and my mom has already put trauma towards me on very special pets I’ve lost in the past Especailly when it wasn’t their time. I never called the cops those were just my thoughts at the moment, cops were going to be called because she would tell me I can’t move out if I take the chicken and she would purposely take it somewhere and give it to someone random so I wouldn’t take it so that’s why I would’ve called the cops… I never did nor did I find another reason to. Instead I’ve been calling and emailing tons of places and we got our chicken an ESA and am hoping for it to come soon I’m not sure when i will or if I will, but the therapist is working on it! You’d be shocked how racist these people from the association are and how ignorant and rude they could be. You’d also think I’m crazy but the report call on the chicken was for the dumbest reason ever.

 

[Jennifer010605]

I hope where you are moving to allows chickens, otherwise your Mom could take revenge and turn you in for having it wherever. I am really sorry this has gotten to be so ugly between you and your Mom. Mine lived to be 96 years old and I still miss her everyday. It just seems sad for a Chicken to get in the way of the relationship of a person that has raised you from childhood to adulthood. Good luck with your decision on all of this. I know you love that Chicken just as I do my Ducks and sorry it has had to come to all of this.

I don’t know how you could do it. I hope I never get to the point where I lose my mom I love her to death and that’s why I haven’t moved out yet or called the cops and instead tried doing more for the chicken. We were going to move, but now my mom doesn’t want to because she doesn’t want our neighbor who works for the association to “win” this whole drama thing they both have. We were even warned when we first moved here back in 2018 to beware our neighbor because she works for the association and loves getting those into trouble and reported. We were told she makes lives miserable and she is very problematic and now my mom sees that in our neighbor. So many of our friends have left because of her. Over 5 family’s have left in the same 3 months that year. Our neighbor is very noisy and impossible. I wish we knew that before we lived here rather then after. Also I’m very sorry about your mom. She’s in a better place and Lord knows she is watching you from above. She’s may be physically gone, but not mentally. She’s still in your heart. I remember raising little duckies, I don’t blame you for having a strong bond with them. Many find that weird because they aren’t pets but I totally understand that relationship XD.

 

[Jennifer010605]

Exactly. I don’t see what good involving the cops in family drama would do. Especially if they’re legally an adult. Just a waste of the cops time. And honestly I feel like a little bit childish in a way. Not saying that to be mean but it should not be necessary to involve them. Wanna move out, just do it. No need for permission from mom or the cops.

I don’t think you guys understand that the reason for the cops was because my mom didn’t let me move out with the chciken. She wanted to give it away and I told her I’ll take it she said no. I said I’ll move out with it and how she can still see the chciken and she said no. I was confused cause if she wants to give it away why not give it out to me? With me it’s safe and we can still see it… she didn’t allow me and I’m 18 and the chicken Is also mine so I have the choice to leave with it or not especially if my mom’s choice was to give it out.. again she didn’t let me, that’s where the cops were going to come in, to give her reasoning that I could take it. I know a specific cop to call anyways so it’s not like I was going to dial 911, I was going to call one I knew who I bonded with at my highschool since I had his card. Either way, never called the cops I knew it would cause drama and at the time I said I would call them because of how annoyed and frustrated I felt at the thought of losing our chicken not knowing what would happen to her.