I haven't been on for a day and a half (about got me too!) and I read this wonderfully thoughtful post and Grits thankfulness for the all the great people she has come to know because of this website, and I am just in awe of such loving hearts. It does me good to think that I try every day to live my life as if there is a God (because I know there is), than not to live my life as if there is no God, and then get to heaven someday and realize that there IS a God. Didn't come out right, but you all know what I mean. . .how hard is it to be good and decent and live by a set of very easy rules if you just think about it. . .