Understood! I could tell you stories, too. But the best revenge is a life well-lived. Now, If I could just get there, so I can rub it in his narcissistic face!About 18 inches. I had 3 at one point. I had aquariums galore when I was with my ex. The dumb dumb gave sold all the tanks when we broke up. I’m upset over the 120 gallon tank, oak stand, a sump, and all the attachments he sold. That crap was mine, he already milked me for the house he bought, why not sell her crap? Sorry, I’m still upset over it.