BelovedBirds
Crossing the Road
Absolutely, and I agree that binary is harmful.I think I probably misunderstood what you were saying, then. If not societal behavior, what were you talking about?
Gender being a social construct doesn't negate the fact that gender is important. Being a trans man is important to me. I'm definitely not saying that gender wouldn't be a thing at all without societal influence. I'm critiquing our cisnormative society which presses male vs female without acknowledging that it is much deeper and more nuanced than that.
You made a brilliant point when you touched on how the gender binary has been pushed, and that colonisation actually erased a lot of culture. Specifically at the hand of a white cis-het Christian narrative, which has dominated the US and made a lot of people believe in an "only two genders" narrative. And I'm not bashing religion, or cis people, it's not all of them, nor is it only them. I'm merely stating a fact about history.
And this lasting damage can be seen today. We need better education to undo that brain washing.
I truly believe that the world will reach a balance someday. That people will be educated and people will be accepted. Different isn't a bad thing.
I have to believe it.