I know the feeling. I always like make chocolates and cakes and brownies and caramels and cards and buy flowers and everything for my partners and they're just like "what's a valentines?". Especially when it comes to at-home activities. Going out on dates is better.
We'll see what happens this year. My expectations aren't too high and I'm not going overboard myself. I have some small gifts (jewelry, actually. I have an amethyst necklace and a paracord bracelet with a xenomorph on it) and I'm thinking some hand-drawn cards. Maybe I'll bake some brownies in a heart shape - that's pretty easy and lets me keep up my standards. XD