Anyone else with a spouse or SO with ADD. My husband was diagnosed 2 years ago at the age of 59. He has had it all his life and no one caught it. He could never concentrate, finish a task, or focus. He is on meds now and when he takes them he seems to do better, but he doesn't like some of the side effects so sometimes he takes less or doesn't take them at all for a few days. Then he drives me crazy. Starts 10 projects and finishes none of them.