I’m sorry but she clearly did not know she was doing something wrong. It’s one thing to educate somebody on trap and release but another thing to make somebody feel like crap when they clearly thought they were doing the right thing. And I mean that in the nicest way possible.
I am sorry you feel I was harsh.
I am not berating the OP. I did not intend anyone to feel that way.
Many many people will read this thread.
I am a plain spoken (sometimes read as blunt) person and was simply being to the point.