You are really good friends. My sister and nephew are doing what they can to persuade me not to move. My sister more then her son. "We will never see you again", "we will not come to see you, ever", "you will end up a bag lady living on the streets", "do not expect me to help you, you will not get anything (my Trust, she is the Trustee).", "you will be all alone, no one will be there for you." And on and on. She is family so I expected this. She had visions of her moving down here from Vegas, and we being closes, going shopping or what ever. As it is my brother lives in both Minneapolis and Las Vegas, I have a niece in San Diego, and one Palm Springs, my nephew used to live in NYC. I have a daughter that wants to move back north.
God love her, I am touched she wants to keep me here.
What I know is, friends are better then family in a lot of ways. It will be up to me, if I am a good friend I will have good friends, become active in the community, and give of my self. I have great faith, and trust in my faith. Were I am now, there is no community, I have friends that are scattered across Arizona, not a community. I need also a community were I share basic interests as well. From what I have gleaned, music, cooking, chicken, farming, the land, and sense of community and what it means to be a friend, I have found it. And my sister will still be there and we will still love each other, and see each other ever so often.