Well because blood is thicker then water right or wrong around here, and I'm not up to taking on the whole family so they can prove to each other who can take up for the other the most. My husband has begged me not to make enemies out of them because they would drop him like a bad habit if he went against them to take up for me and he doesn't want there to be bad blood. Its just easier for him to be the peace maker. When my cousin and I were little we found 100's of catepillars and filled up a 5 gallon bucket almost with them. It was time to go home and we decided we would just put them in the water trough. Oh boy I will never forget the consequences for that. We both got busted, we both got grounded, we had to pick every last one of them out of the water and then we had to apologize to our great grandpa for killing his catepillars. Honestly, we weren't catching them with intentions to be mean... it was just something that crossed our minds as we were leaving. We were punished just the same and I never tried anything like that again.
It is 100% his parent/grandmother's fault. His mom didn't even show up to court to fight for him so she could continue to party, she threw a bigger fit over making sure she got her Cane Corso then her son. His dad and grandma treat him like a king I guess because they want him to like them more? I don't think they have anything to worry about because his mom rarely even sees him on her weekends and he hates going with her. They are more scared of her loaded family taking him, I would die to live in their horse barns much less their houses. His cruelty to animals is the tip of the iceberg, you would die if you heard how he talked to his dad and grandma. So they will spoil him rotten and when he is old enough he will still most likely spend the majority of his time with his loaded grand parents who throw $100 bills around like they are $5 bills, and will buy him anything he asks for.
When my husband saw that he was peeing on my truck he said "Really? Hey (My son) next time you have to pee do it on his truck." We are extremely sarcastic around here and my son got the hint. My brother in law said "Its different if a 7 year old does it then when a 3 year old does it, besides your dog does enough." my husband said "I don't see how it is different at all, but I do see a difference in a dog peeing on tires and a kid peing on your door."
Ok I guess I'm going to bed, maybe I'll wake up tomorrow and won't be all wound up about it lol. Doubt it, but heres for wishful thinking.