I do have kitchen aid. How smelly is the process? Both myself and G-dtr have asthma. I have a niece who makes soap, I may ask her to give me a lesson. Do you find that your soap is easier on the skin than store bought stuff? I'd love to make some that would have some skin healing properties, perhaps with Aloe and any herbs that are reported to be skin gentle. Does your soap have glycerin in it? Some of the recipes that I've read have lye ie: draino in them. not sure how gentle that stuff would be! And how easy on the pocket book is it to get started, and do you find that it actually saves you any money??
Weighing in on the soap making. I make it with a hand held immersion blender, short bursts, gentle stir in between. It is a fascinating process to take lye and oil and wait for all the molecules to find each other, bond, and make something new.
Find a good book or online site, follow directions to the T. Go for something basic first before you start adding anything else.
Yes it is more gentle than commercial soap as it has it's glycerine still, they strip that out of the commercial soap process to use elsewhere to increase profit. The hard thing to do is wait for the batch to cure, it takes 4-6 weeks, also not peeking when it is curing the first several hours, it gets hot, and you need to keep it insulated so it foes not cool too quickly. Saran wrap and an old towel or two can take care of that. Get a good scale to weigh your ingredients. I have some equipment dedicated to just soap making, immersion blender, bowls, stirring spoons.... You can make a mold out of most anything.
Be careful with your lye, if you purchase it at a hardware store make sure it does not have any added ingredients, you can also buy it online. I have found mine at Lowes. Buy only one container for two reasons, it will make quite a bit of soap, and I guess lye is used in the manufacturing process for a street drug so if you get a few containers you may come under scrutiny.
I would start with a small batch the first few times, that way, if you screw something up you won't have lost a bunch of materials.
Use caution about adding essential oils, make sure they are OK to use on skin.
If you have your own septic, washing the utensils off is hard on the septic system.
Honey and beeswax is heavenly in soap.
Find an online calculator, About.com has some good soap resources.
It is not really difficult, you just have to follow instructions carefully, and ALWAYS wear eye protection and rubber gloves.
I take my lye and oil outside to mix together and stir for a few minutes to let most of the fumes die down.
If you want some links PM me. It is fun!