Use to live in the DC/Balti metropolitan area ... a hellish commute is 4+ hrs due to gridlock. You haven't lived until your bladder is about to explode and you haven't moved more than a few feet in hours. There is no such thing as traffic in Maine, even leaving the York toll plaza on Columbus Day weekend. The traffic at least moves. And sometimes there's a man in a lobster suit to wave you goodbye. In Maryland leaving Charles County to go to DC or Balti politicians running for office would park along the side of the road and wave to commuters with big signs with their name. When the traffic was really bad and stopped they'd be able to talk to the "voters." That's my idea of insanity. I was pleasantly surprised to hear that the news around here didn't include what was backed up on the beltway or that the bridge was blocked due to an accident and rubbernecking. No traffic reports, ever. Welcome to Maine. The way life should be. When I go home it's hard to remember that if I want to go somewhere I need to include at least an hour window for traffic.
I also admit I have a huge house that I don't need, but it was a steal during the housing nadir, and I can afford it. A pellet stove later and it's a breeze to heat, too. I enjoy having space after living in dingy cramped apartments for years. Don't care about the guests, but *I* love the space.
I do wish I had more land, and more privacy. I would move for that, even if the commute was longer. Because I need more garden room and goats. And maybe a cow or some horses. Or guineas.