I just lost my 14 yr old gander a few weeks ago and it has been heartbreaking for me and for his mate of almost 10yrs. I have been worried about her but she has done so well. I moved her in with my Runners/Buffs and chickens So she wouldn't be alone in their house. Only a few times has she gone to their house and I opened the door so she could see Sam wasn't in there. She isn't calling for him now either. So I am feeling much better about her getting through this. I was sure expecting Sam to live into his 20's he was never sick in his entire lifetime. But I am very thankful to have had almost 15 yrs with him. Your story @Susieconnell made me think of all the good memories I have had with Sam hatching here under a Muscovy duck to him being papa goose to all the ducklings that hatched here and his precious relationship he had with Missy his mate.