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In my experience, it is often the things that parents are worried about that kids pick up on and worry about; if a parent expresses apprehension and dread about slaughter day, kids are apt to pick up on this and understand that they should also feel apprehension and dread. Even if a parent's concern is only about how their child will react, a child will pick up on the expectation that the child should have a special reaction.
My recommendation would be not to make a big deal out of slaughter day and not to have hushed conversations about what the kids will be doing when the deed is done.
This is not to say that you should not prepare them for what is going to happen. You should explain to them what the process is and what things they can expect. Let them choose whether they want to see some or all of it after they understand what is going to happen.
Too much to ask of a 2 year old, but your 4 year old is likely capable of deciding for himself (or herself).
I think it is also important to make the kids aware from the start that the chickens will be raised for meat. Don't encourage them to be treated as pets and then surprise them with a slaughter.
Personally I agree. But I will add that I thought one of the neatest things I ever saw as a young boy was a chicken running around after "the deed was done". Like Tim says, if you explain everything (the how and why), your kids are going to be better able to help with processing in the future. But this is just my opinion.
In my experience, it is often the things that parents are worried about that kids pick up on and worry about; if a parent expresses apprehension and dread about slaughter day, kids are apt to pick up on this and understand that they should also feel apprehension and dread. Even if a parent's concern is only about how their child will react, a child will pick up on the expectation that the child should have a special reaction.
My recommendation would be not to make a big deal out of slaughter day and not to have hushed conversations about what the kids will be doing when the deed is done.
This is not to say that you should not prepare them for what is going to happen. You should explain to them what the process is and what things they can expect. Let them choose whether they want to see some or all of it after they understand what is going to happen.
Too much to ask of a 2 year old, but your 4 year old is likely capable of deciding for himself (or herself).
I think it is also important to make the kids aware from the start that the chickens will be raised for meat. Don't encourage them to be treated as pets and then surprise them with a slaughter.
Personally I agree. But I will add that I thought one of the neatest things I ever saw as a young boy was a chicken running around after "the deed was done". Like Tim says, if you explain everything (the how and why), your kids are going to be better able to help with processing in the future. But this is just my opinion.
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