I have to politely disagree with those posts making it out to be some sort of choice on her part. I think that kind of thinking harms alot of people with mental health issues.
Perhaps, yes, a need to create conflict and lash out... but just because someone is doing harm does not mean they are not hurting inside. It does not mean they see the result of the harm as actual harm having been done. She probably hurts herself more inside her head at every error she makes. It would only continue the cycle.
That can be really hard for other people to understand though.
But a person suffering a mental illness is in a far worse place than those who have to deal with the outer symptoms of mental illness. It's like a star gone super nova... all the fire and destruction is trapped inside where it cannot escape. People on the outside can only wonder about the occasional flare that comes shooting off towards them. So, no, not a choice. Not like a mean person who is just mean to see harm done.
But yes, hun.. glad to hear you can make it so she cannot post on your wall.
Perhaps, yes, a need to create conflict and lash out... but just because someone is doing harm does not mean they are not hurting inside. It does not mean they see the result of the harm as actual harm having been done. She probably hurts herself more inside her head at every error she makes. It would only continue the cycle.
That can be really hard for other people to understand though.
But a person suffering a mental illness is in a far worse place than those who have to deal with the outer symptoms of mental illness. It's like a star gone super nova... all the fire and destruction is trapped inside where it cannot escape. People on the outside can only wonder about the occasional flare that comes shooting off towards them. So, no, not a choice. Not like a mean person who is just mean to see harm done.
But yes, hun.. glad to hear you can make it so she cannot post on your wall.