You guys crack me up. She said she opened the mail by mistake. 3 pieces of it??? And since then she is trying to tell me how I NEED to budget myself, etc. I did not even get into it with her that it is a disputed charge.
Tell her that its against the law to open your mail. And since you respect her enough to not report her then she should respect you enough to not open it. And if she still doesnt care and does it, then you should just start taking her mail and opening it. See how she likes it.
tell her to mind her own business And stop opening your mail!! You said it your self in the first post. Some times you just have to be a little harsh!!
If it was only 3 pieces, you could give her the benefit of doubt, but if it happens again, I would send her a respectfulnote, she is your mother after all.
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