From my understanding, they are moved to a "Mods-only" area. You need a certain level of "clearance" to get in. Most of them go "poof" and never return.
When threads get out of hand, are started with intent to create drama, become unfiendly, flaming etc etc etc , we move them to the dead zone. It is there we try to clean them up and get them back on track before putting them back into the public viewing area. The staff also discusses and decides if they go back into the public forum or stay closed.
BYC is a family friendly, child safe forum. We aim to keep it clean and shiney and friendly.
You should read the rules of the forum and make yourself familiar with the standards and expectations to be a member.
You wouldn't want company to come to your house and see your dirty laundry, dirty dishes and full kitty litter boxes sitting at the front door would you?
a lot of them go poof. one went poof right before my very eyes just a second ago and i was all about fixin to reply to it. its tearing me up inside that i didnt get say what i wanted to say. i feel slighly cheated but life may go on.