I have had many, many roosters over the years. I've lost count--30, 40 maybe? I've only ever had to send two to freezer camp for aggression.You are so right and you sure dont need an animal hurting little kids. My roo is 20 weeks. I'm hoping for the best in him but will be keeping an eye out for signs. We're good right now. The girls don't fear me so he doesn't have that to deal with. I go inside the coop every day and sit. He's used to me being around. I think I am prepared for him to challenge me. I guess thats inevitable. But my questions to anyone with lots of experience is, is every rooster destined to be mean? Is there hope for my Bill?
I personally believe that roosters are to be treated as chickens, not as pets. Think about chicken language--what are you telling your rooster? If you pick him up and pet him, well, in a flock the hens groom the alpha rooster. You are telling him directly, in chicken language, that he's the boss of you. Of course he gets mad when you don't act the way he thinks you should! I firmly believe in making pets of hens, but leaving roosters strictly alone. Make sure they move away from you when you move towards them--that's a sign of chicken respect. He should not be afraid of you, but he should not want to be petted, either.
As long as he's not challenging you now--and I don't mean flogging, I mean other shows of aggression like putting his hackles up and moving towards you--then there's hope. I'd actually say that the odds are far better that he WON'T turn out aggressive than he will--there are more non-aggressive roosters in the world than aggressive ones.