Guess that means my DDs didn't self regulate for a LONG time. DD1 was 5# 9 oz, DD2 5# 15 oz. And of course they both lost a bit before they came home. Though I guess DD2 likely gained it back, she was in NICU for a week, lung issues.
@oldrooster I'm really sorry your family were such (self censored). Hopefully you have other friends and family that value you. I can't imagine people having such attitudes and hanging them on a kid for his entire life (to date).
Yeah I'm not going with Auntie Bruce. And
@Blooie is right, I don't deserve to be a cyber uncle since I didn't help with the waiting room task!