My leukemia's back.

[OFChickens]

Yep, father-in-law went septic... I think still is... and yes, the infection started in the foot...

But still too early to know much..

Infection in the foot (which of course was inching up the leg last night) has finally stopped increasing in size... but no reduction yet.

 

[oldrooster]

Sour when you say one day at a time, do you mean the song, or the TV show, some days it might be both for me....

 

[getaclue]

Blooie, I'm still waiting. It says they will have it here before 9 tonight. I was hoping they would be here early, but I guess that ship has sailed. I have to keep an eye out for the grandbaby. She wants to give they UPS, and Amazon delivery people a hug when they come. She's convinced they work for Santa, since they always bring "presents" when they come.

 

[oldrooster]

Gac I walked up to a guy in a UPS uniform a while back and asked what he could do for me he gave me a blank look and was like "what do you mean" I smiled and said your wearing a UPS uniform and I had to ask that because of the ads a few years back that's all and he got a kick out of it. I told him it was that or the old FEDUP joke I was sure he heard all too often, he laughed harder and said yes he did prefer that instead. (did you hear fed ex and ups is gonna merge? yea, it's gonna be called fedup....)

 

[getaclue]

Update: "Due to an unforeseen problem, their is a delay in delivering your order". It says I'll get it tomorrow, or the next day. Dang it.

 

[room onthebroom]

Yeah... might be good to have him home for a few months before sending him off again...

Of course I keep circling the "what ifs" and "could I have done whatever better" in my brain.

But what is... just is.

And if he is home I can keep a close eye on him while we try out and adjust meds... and hold his hand while he starts up the online college that I THINK might be a good fit for his brain.

It is interesting the "deficits" that came up in his testing.

But a friend of mine said that clearly he IS capable of taking care of himself and getting things done (and the testing said he would need a life coach and skills coach, etc. in order to live on his own) So clearly I haven't ruined the boy by homeschooling him... and clearly I have already taught him those skills... he just needs a bit more help with the ADHD so that he can succeed at boring stuff... like college classes.

Good friend... I clearly needed to hear that....

I think it will all work out.

Let the what ifs go. You are a great parent & you probably did him a world of good by homeschooling him. Public school it a nightmare for kids with learning disabilities. On line college should be great too. Buy yourself a piece of cake & take a measly 2minutes to just enjoy & not worry about anything.

 

[bruceha2000]

Watching over me while Ken’s out of town....those EYES!

I can read them:
"Mind yourself young lady or you'll be REAL sorry when Dad gets home!"

Eh....

Geez Al, not a lot to like about that post. I hope for the best possible outcome all around.

The not taking care of diabetes could go septic? Maybe lose a foot or a kidney?

Yeah, there are some diseases you can choose to ignore. Diabetes isn't one of them.

Of course I keep circling the "what ifs" and "could I have done whatever better" in my brain.

DO NOT do that to yourself Al!!! Whatever the testing says, seems to me he is already well beyond what they think his capabilities are.

 

[Cynthia12]

@Alaskan it WILL all work out - one day at a time. We do the best that we can for our kids, and there is no doubt whatsoever in my mind that you have done the best for him - and are continuing to do so.

X'2 Alaskan!!

 

[getaclue]

Al, when playing the "what if" game, you have to learn the rules on how to play it for real. What if public schooling had taught him not to attempt to face challenges, because he has an excuse not to? What if public school had put him in a box, so he was only to achieve what was in their box? What if public school had demanded he be placed on medications that had a negative reaction, or caused a psychotic episode? What if homeschooling taught him he'd have to work harder to achieve his goals? What if homeschooling produced a calmer environment, so he was able to learn more? What if homeschooling is what brought out his compassion for people? What if homeschooling, and doing chores at home taught him better focus, consistency, and follow-through, instead of flitting around like a butterfly with each passing thought? What if homeschooling taught him life experiences that will serve him better than what he would have learned in public school? What if homeschooling is what helped keep him closer to God?

People forget that the "what if" game has to be played with the positive aspects too, in order to be played fairly. See, you are playing the "what if" game with unknown factors, and assumptions. You are assuming that he might have been better off, IF....but there is no proof of that. What you do know is that he's not going to be a rocket scientist, but so what? Not everyone is a rocket scientist, nor are they suppose to be. That doesn't mean you should jump to the opposite extreme, that he's going to be the homeless dude begging for money, and food. There is a lot of area in between those two extremes. It's more about evaluating his likes, interests, and capabilities, then finding the niche he fills. BTW, let's not forget the Lord's hand in his life. Keep praying, and have faith. In spite of all odds, and appearances, keep your faith. It's amazing what the Lord can do with a little faith.

 

[Blooie]

THIS!!!!