My leukemia's back.

[LittleLakePhil]

Found you on FB. Waiting for someone to accept.

If anyone does try to friend me on Facebook let me know your names.... fang I wasnt thinking a lot of you I don't know your real names....I was getting bombarded with fake request.....ect.

 

[wyoDreamer]

I bought a 3 layer litter box for the barn cats - actually 3 sets of litter pans for 6 cats. They have slots cut in the bottom of them, and when you stack them the slots won't line-up so you have a solid bottom. Simply lift the top pan and let the non-clumped litter fall through. The clumps left in the pan are then tossed. Clean the pan and then place it on the bottom of the stack. I HATE scooping through litter boxes.

 

[bruceha2000]

I bought a 3 layer litter box for the barn cats - actually 3 sets of litter pans for 6 cats. They have slots cut in the bottom of them, and when you stack them the slots won't line-up so you have a solid bottom. Simply lift the top pan and let the non-clumped litter fall through. The clumps left in the pan are then tossed. Clean the pan and then place it on the bottom of the stack. I HATE scooping through litter boxes.

Oh, that is a great design! I have one that has a "sifter" pan but the only way to use it after you take it out to collect the "bad" stuff, you have to dump all the litter out of the pan, put the sifter in then dump the litter back in. So I don't use it, less work to just scoop.

 

[bruceha2000]

If anyone does try to friend me on Facebook let me know your names.... fang I wasnt thinking a lot of you I don't know your real names....I was getting bombarded with fake request.....ect.

Sadly one of the "issues" with FB. Maybe people can give their BYC name in the request so you will know which to accept and which to reject without even "opening" them (if that is how it works, I don't know since I don't do FB).

How did you make out yesterday Phil? Must have been extremely difficult for you.

 

[LittleLakePhil]

Sadly one of the "issues" with FB. Maybe people can give their BYC name in the request so you will know which to accept and which to reject without even "opening" them (if that is how it works, I don't know since I don't do FB).

How did you make out yesterday Phil? Must have been extremely difficult for you.

It was very very hard... waves of emotions.
It started the second I woke up..... but I got through it....I still don't know why.
I just don't know.... lost. I wish everyone wasn't watching me when it first happened I wished our story could have ended together.
Not to be morbid.... or depressing but it would have been the right end... together.
But I keep plugging along until I either Get better or give in.... but love everyone for just being there for me

 

[LittleLakePhil]

Cynthia I think I friended you.... not sure

 

[getaclue]

Phil, that's how it comes, in waves. You were blessed to have her in your life. There are hundreds of tiny things that could have occurred, in her life, and yours, that could have prevented you two from even meeting, or becoming a couple. Even though you wanted it to go on, that's not something we have control over. Ride out those waves. Yes, it's difficult. Call the kids often. Visit them, if you can. Go see the grands. You two have heirs, that even if they don't know it, need you still. Call, visit, or make a new friend, or two. Don't just sit around, and mope. It helps to stay busy, and interactive with others, to help calm those waves.

 

[LittleLakePhil]

I don't mope..... I've never n been a moper.
But this is different. Is deeper. Wouldn't say I was moping.

I shoveled out the gate.... shoveled a path to the propane tank.. ordered propane.

The spent hours shoveling the coop roof... there was 40," of packed snow up there.... then I had to fix the van and drove 5 hours south yesterday to visit the kids... that's not moping around that's grieving.....

 

[LittleLakePhil]

And trust me that was alot of tonnage of snow...
.I bet I shoveled for 4 hours....

 

[Alaskan]

And trust me that was alot of tonnage of snow...
.I bet I shoveled for 4 hours....

Crazy amount of snow!!