My leukemia's back.

[getaclue]

It took me a long time to convince him not to dump leftovers at the edge of the property, to feed the wildlife. He quit about 9 months ago, when he saw firsthand why that's not a good idea. At least hes' not doing that anymore.

 

[getaclue]

Remember, this is the fellow that, according to him, was raised in the country, and his family farmed, and raised some livestock. I later learned there were a few holes in his account. While his mother owned 5 acres, and his grandmother owned the adjoining 5 acres, they lived on the main highway, fairly close to town. That's not exactly living in the country. His parents never farmed anything. His grandmother had a vegetable garden. At one time, yes she had raised some livestock, but quit raising livestock long before he was born. She had a horse when he was little. He had a pet rabbit when he was young. That was the livestock he was referring to. A lot of his neighbors really did farm, and raise livestock, but occasionally watching a neighbor tend their farm, is a far cry from farming yourself.

 

[Blooie]

Gee, that would be like Ken thinking he could fix our entire plumbing system because he once saw a guy unclog a drain, right?

 

[getaclue]

Now you understand my frustration. To put the icing on the cake, he grew up in Indiana. We live in Florida. Little to none of the things he observed about agriculture while growing up, apply down here. BUT he argues with me every step of the way.......

 

[sourland]

BUT he argues with me every step of the way.......

As men/husbands this is our purpose.

Good morning, Team Rachel.

 

[Blooie]

Good morning, Team Rachel from me, too!!

 

[getaclue]

Good morning Team Rachel.

sour, that's exactly what Dh says. It's part of his husbandly duties to push my buttons, and infuriate me. He claims that sometimes, it really takes effort, and creativity on his part.

 

[bruceha2000]

So I’m holding them all accountable, on the record, tonight. Wish me luck!

I think I'd have to wish them luck - for getting out of that meeting unscathed

HE's suddenly got this great idea to put up electric fencing, when he's off this weekend.

Clever man! Amazing number of animals you had that single night. Clearly the critters don't weigh enough to make tracks around the coop, glad "he" had the insight to set up the game camera

 

[Alaskan]

HOW am I ever going to get eldest capable of living alone long term?

Just found out that he has been taking spouse's high blood pressure meds instead of his ADHD meds.... and we can't find his ADHD meds.... because we thought he had them, so haven't been paying attention, and now have no idea where they were put.



So eldest has been taking the correct morning drug, but his afternoon drug has been a blood pressure med.

Sheesh! I looked it up... kid is ok.... it was a low dose.... just frustrating that he didn't notice.

 

[ronott1]

HOW am I ever going to get eldest capable of living alone long term?

Just found out that he has been taking spouse's high blood pressure meds instead of his ADHD meds.... and we can't find his ADHD meds.... because we thought he had them, so haven't been paying attention, and now have no idea where they were put.



So eldest has been taking the correct morning drug, but his afternoon drug has been a blood pressure med.

Sheesh! I looked it up... kid is ok.... it was a low dose.... just frustrating that he didn't notice.

Does he see an Occupational therapist?

https://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/childhood-adhd/occupational-therapy-for-children-with-adhd#1