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Now print this, (Brandy's husband) and make sure you take it out and read it when she is making you pull out your hair because she is a female and Heck, Men just don't get it sometimes.
Brandy's husband............you are a winner!! You sounded like a great son-in-law to me! If you are asked to speak at her memorial, my dear, print this off and read it. It is a perfect way to honor her. Hugs to you both! Please be sure Brandy does read your response to her posts.
Oh bless you both .... You are going through so much but what a wonderous joy that you have so many memories of this wonderful woman, loving the both of you and the world. I'm just going to say a little prayer as I'm holding you both up to the Lord with Open arms saying:
Dear Heavenly Father please be so close to this wonderful couple Brandy and her husband who sorely miss their loved one. Comfort them. Allow them to know that they can be laughing one minute and crying the next, that All is honored and needed. Dear Lord I pray that their memories will be cherished for years to come and shared often. We thank you Lord that You are here for us all the time, in our deepest sadness and our greatest joy. I rejoice Lord that You are ever present for us and that you have paved a way for eternity through your son, in whose name I pray.
Amen....
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Brandy, If ever you need a real person to pm from time to time, feel free.....My mother went to heaven 10 years ago and my father 12 years ago.....I think of each daily. I was a caregiver for both....The memories now are sweet and uplifting but for quite some time I went through "the emotional rollercoaster" but God was there and permitted the healing........My mother a few months before she died asked me "what was the shortest sentence in the Bible".....I knew the answer but I let her tell me......Jesus wept........ In her own sweet way, she was letting me have my emotions and say it's just okay....
May God just pour the blessings on you both now and forever more......
And Yes, BYC is such a loving and wonderful group.....
Your being there for her end, just as she was there for your beginning, is the ultimate act of love. Mourn now and go through the gut wrenching process...but know she is free from prison of pain her body became. She is smiling down and watching you, loving you, supporting you from the other side now.
you too are an increadable person. Your whole family has touched us and to hear of your mil is wonderful. Your love of your wife and her of you will carry you through this, and all the prayers from those of us here as well. I want to send warm hugs, and thanks for sharing with us your love of your "mom" and give us even more of a sense of who she was. God bless you all