You’re personifying him. He’s an animal, not a human. He doesn’t realize you are the provider of the sustenance; he only sees you as a threat to his territory and his girls. It’s millions of years of evolutionary instinct. Idk what you mean about in your own house, I hope he’s not in your home. If you mean when you’re outside in your own yard, he needs to respect you when you come around. No need for love, cuddles and him to realize all that you do for him. It’s not gonna happen. At this point, he’s a danger to you and your family - especially young children. I would process him and have a nice dinner, and start over with a different rooster. This time get familiarized with how to handle them properly and get them to respect you.