My very first RANT!!

This is just driving me crazy! I worked 13 1 /2 hours yesterday with an 1 1/2 hour drive time. This is what I see this morning. My son and his wife came over last night while I was at work with their 2 children.


My DIL and I don't get along at all. If you think this is bad you should see her house. She don't work (can't seem to hold a job) Wants to be a full time house wife. She believes her duties end at taking care of the kids. When she's not sleeping that is. My son is an apprentice electrician and works 10 hour days. But his home duties are dishes,garbage and laundry. If he doesn't get his done she won't do hers.
When she does work,1 in 3 1/2 years of marriage. Any money she earns is HERS. It's his responsibilty to pay bills. She was fired at her last job because every time the boss told her to do something she'd argue with her. Now just imagine what happens at home for my son. She's bi-polar and refuses to take meds. I personally believe she has border line personality disorder. Their phones got cut off yesterday. He told me that he was glad. She calls him every 15 minutes while he's working. If he don't answer it he has her screaming at him when he gets home. The only reason he stays is for the kids. He's scared that she'll get the kids (very good probability in Wyoming). Right now he says that at least he provides buffer for them.

 

The only thing not done was the bed made. But the bedding was folded on the bed. I'm wanting to shampoo the carpet. The kids also dumped chicken feed all over my computer room floor.( I have some seramas in there.)
I'll give her some credit. She told my DH she would dump the ash tray but the garbage sack was full. So he pulled it and still had to dump it himself.
Ahappy chick, thats what I think would happen. They've seperated before and she always brings them back. But then my lunk head son feels guilty and invites her to stay also.
Did I mention she's destructive when in a rage. She's pulled cabinet doors off and thrown things.Then she cuts herself. Threatens to kill herself all the time. She's been into counselors since she was 14 years old. Thats the age when she pushed her Mom down and started stomping on her. Of course he found all this out after the marriage. She idealizes her Dad that beat her Mom and went to prison for dealing drugs.She wants to be just like him.

 

I'm not upset about my grand kids. I understand that they were just having fun. And yes it's both of them. The kids are 4 and 2. Real cuties!
My DH was home. They know that he won't say anything about picking up. Wouldn't want to create waves.