Find a good Chiropractor who is more than the average chiro knowledgable about nurtitian, and then adjustments are also key. I use to work for one and he use to talk about kids with ADD and ADHD and how it was nurtionally connected and with the adjustments also, it can really help kids. I have a neighbor kid who has been deathly allergic to peanuts all his life, just turned 15 I think, and he went to this same Chiro I worked for and had some kind of treatment done, and now he is eating peanut butter cups. It is amazing how our spine and the connections to every single part of our bodies are correlated. I would ask at the Health Food store if they know of a Chiro who might work hand in hand with them in treating your kids. Good luck, and bless you for NOT medicating. Schools are usually the first to suggest the drugs, and I can tell you from working and watching and observing from the cafeteria, its not the answer.