Actually I read many pages of the thread when you first posted it, but I chose not to argue with your choice and leave you the space to express yourself.
Honestly, I feel very concerned when people pick one guru to follow.
Probably because I've witnessed some guru stuff in a few different fields, one being horse training, that took on a life of its own and reached unhealthy heights. Suddenly no one is thinking about their relationship with their horse anymore, but whether they are following all the steps in the program to a T, and the horse better get in compliance or else because there's another clinic coming up and they don't want to disappoint the master.
Gives me the heeby jeebies!