My current male- came from a farm where he was raised in a barn with out handling, and even though I got him at two, he's tamed up very nicely. Really surprised me. One of my females who I had since a chick -never was as trusting. I suggest doing a lot of your work with the birds late afternoon to dusk, when birds are naturally settling down for the evening to roost. Hard boiled egg yolks, fed while you give your special call (ie. chick chik, chik...) on a consistent basis - may help. Hard boiled eggs are irresistible and work with shy birds because the bright yellow is so easily spotted from a far. Then you can really hook em in with the freeze dried meal worms later, but they don't show up as well, and they are really hard to throw! (-: