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Need prayers, again please

Discussion in 'Family Life - Stories, Pictures & Updates' started by key west chick, Feb 24, 2011.

  1. key west chick

    key west chick Songster

    May 31, 2008
    Gainesville, GA
    Just found out the loans on this house are due. No biggy, just refinaince right? Nope, new interest rate has gone up to 8%. Hubby says we cant pay anything over what we are paying now, just cant do it. (this house doesnt really belong to us. DH and I filed bankruptcy about 6 years ago, a good friend of ours that was living with us at the time, bought this house we are in. We didnt have the credit for it, she worked at a bank and was able to get the loans. Hubby has paid for most of the expenses since we all moved in together nearly 5 years ago. So the house belongs to her on paper, the loans, insurance, blah blah blah.) He told me I have a week to clean the house and start finding a place for all my animals, he's putting the house on the market. I am FREAKING out! He told me I would have to move in with my parents, who by the way are moving to Kentucky by this summer, and hes gonna move in with his parents. Really? So I need some major prayers right now that the friend who owns the house can get something worked out. Hubby going to the bank and getting a loan is out of the question. Hes talked to his boss about getting a loan threw him but the bosses wife has gotten into the middle and its not looking good. My son is in 10 th grade this year and so loves his school. The city district my in-laws live in is horrible. The one school near my parents house is almost as bad. We moved here for the school. No chance of keeping him here either. We need lots of prayers, please, Im begging you guys...

  2. WingingIt

    WingingIt Songster

    Apr 16, 2009
    I'm lost. A female friend owns the house, but someone male (DH?) is telling you that he's putting it on the market? If she owns it, then she's the one that has to put it on the market. Or does DH mean she wants to raise the payments and he's telling her to either rent it to someone else or sell it?

    Then DH says you are going to physically split up the family? None of this makes sense to me, sorry. I don't want to be rude, but are you sure DH isn't blowing smoke and using this as a way to leave the family without coming right out and saying it? Hopefully not, but it sure seems like he's made a lot of decisions without you and is dumping a lot on you at once.

    If getting the house is not an option in any way, shape or form, you and DH need to start looking for a rental. Hopefully you can find one in the same school district or at least close enough that you can continue to take him there (with a waiver) until at least the end of this school year.

    Good luck!
  3. Katy

    Katy Flock Mistress

    I don't understand either.....if the house is in her name he has no say in if it's put on the market or not.
  4. Arthur

    Arthur Songster

    Jul 7, 2010
    Me lost too
  5. easttxchick

    easttxchick Lone Star Call Ducks

    Aug 3, 2009
    Whatever the situation is, I hope everything works out for you and your family(and your animals).
  6. jcbydesign

    jcbydesign In the Brooder

    Sep 21, 2010
    Portland, OR
    No matter whether we understand or not...still sending prayers, everybody? [​IMG]
    Last edited: Feb 24, 2011
  7. wegotchickens

    wegotchickens DownSouth D'Uccles & Silkies

    Jul 5, 2007
    Sevier County, TN
    I think I understand, you've had a unique arrangement for a while.
    Anyway, sending prayers your way! [​IMG]

  8. justmeandtheflock

    justmeandtheflock Overrun with ducklings :)

    May 27, 2009
    NW NJ
  9. schellie69

    schellie69 Songster

    Oct 8, 2009
    Sending prayers and hoping you can get this worked out. I would sit down with roommate and Dh and have everything laid out on the table something sounds fishy.
  10. Lunachick

    Lunachick Chicken Slave

    Mar 19, 2007
    Brick, NJ
    key west chick - I will send a little prayer out to you and hope things work out.......[​IMG]

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