thanks guys!! ive had every intention of leaving it back "there" (aka in the past), but I just hope everyone else does too...otherwise things could get ugly....wierd how things just pop up out of no where and bother you and then of course the people around you who care about you want to jump up and do something about it to "fix" it, but only make it worse bc then it brings that problem that was in the past back into the present.....i just hope it gets left alone now....