READ THIS FIRST! EDIT: Note the start of this thread dates back to 2008. Read all the way to the end for a happy ending. END EDIT Hi folks, I haven't been on in ages. Life sort of got away from me. I'm getting married this Saturday. I'd just like to ask those of you that pray to give me a thought tonight, and I'd also appreciate hearing from any of you who have been in a similar situation. I'm not stressed about the marriage! :-D But, we are both nearing 40, and we decided we want kids. So we tried for about five months. We got pregnant, and found out officially last week. This morning I miscarried. As far as I know, it was my first. Even though the doctor said that many times a woman will miscarry and not even have known she was pregnant. I mean, we were barely five weeks along, it was nothing. But I had gotten used to the idea that I was going to be a mommy. And those of our friends and family who knew about it were also excited for us. We want to try again, of course. And even though I know that this happens sometimes, and that it always happens for a reason, there is a part of me so scared to even try again.