I must add that as a former member of our town's Planning and Zoning Commission and a current member of the Town Council, I am appalled at the treatment you are getting from your local officials. If we have situations where time is important, we'll set up special meetings to expedite things fairly just so people don't have to hang on for weeks for decisions. And we would have scheduled a visit to see your property without having the other party there so that you felt more free to show us exactly what you were concerned about without a hostile audience, followed by a visit to her property in the same vein. I don't understand, but I hope you don't get a bitter taste in your mouth about all elected officials.....we aren't all that callous.