I know how you feel. We moved onto 10 acres in '96 and were all alone for a long time. One fine day as we threw some afterbirth from one of our cows over the fence, this family came walking up and said "hi" were going to be your new neighbors. We both just looked at them funny, I don't know if was because we didn't want neighbors or because we almost covered them in the afterbirth.
They were good neighbors, but they moved and it has gone downhill since. The next set of neighbors wanted horses, but had never owned any before. After 9 months of catching and returning their horses to them without a "thank you" or a "f" you, they moved.
Now we have some more suburbanites who want to live in the country. They immediately put up a six foot vinyl fence between the property where we already had a fence and a little gate we put in so the kids could play back and forth. The fencing company complained that our fence angled in 3 inches into their property. The guy was using a string and wasn't using both property marker pins. I had to politely tell him to kiss my butt because we had used a transit over 10 years ago to put the fence in and that the property lines were slightly angled.
They have gated their driveway and it is shut unless they are coming or going. No one will talk to them as they have shut themselves in like hermits.
The place has grown up around us. I know some of the closer neighbors really well and some not so well.
Yep I agree with the statement that I was here first. I have around 13 roosters that let them know it too.
Jean