love-my-wolves wrote:
I just had an incident yesterday with my dog. My kids had a bunch of friends over. My DS opened the bedroom door where the girls were all playing with my DDs, and my very large dog rushed in after hearing typical girl noises (yelling, squeeling, etc) and grabbed one of the neighbor girls arm!!!!! I went rushing in, and truly, the first thought that entered my mind, well, second after the welfare of the girl, was "dead dog". If she had been truly injured, I have no doubt that right now I would not have my dog. He would be put to sleep. After reviewing the incident, I truly feel that behind the door, the other girls were behaving roughly with my 2 DDs, as girls will do, and he was going to protect them. He did nothing more than grab the girls' arm. No marks, not even a red mark. Like he was warning her. She laughed it off (her words were "ew, he slobbered on me!"), but my dog now has a permanent home outside. I will not abide by an aggressive dog. Especially with kids. Period. What is scary is that any animal can perceive anything as a threat. Anything. I was there when the incident happened, and I never in my wildest dreams would have thought he would do that!!!! I always supervise the kids, mine and others, around both my dogs. The fact is, it took all of 5 seconds for him to move. To me, that was the end of his cushy inside home. He is now my full-time chicken protector, he is chained to their run. Maybe now the coons will stay away!
Socially isolating a dog with aggressive tendancies, will only worsen the behavior. I would totally never trust the dog with strangers ever again (isolate him then), but at least let him socialize with the family. Social isolation is torture for dogs, chaining a dog also makes them more likely to bite. Just be aware that you are setting this dog up to really hurt someone.
I agree 100% I have done a lot of training/socializing work in our local shelter and usually the dogs that have been chained for prolonged periods of time are the ones with the biggest problems and the hardest to fix. Dogs are pack animals, highly social and in need of that contact. Please please please don't just force him to stay chained outside. I know he is your dog but from what you have said I don't feel like it is being fair to the animal. If he was protecting your DD then he has absolutely no concept of what he did being wrong. In a pack situation if a puppy is getting to rowdy the older dog will discipline them just like you describe, mouthing with no injuries. He was trying to control a situation, that he doesn't fully understand, to the best of his abilities. Maybe just put him outside when DD has friends over, to me it doesn't sound aggressive at all. You said it yourself, you feel like he was protecting her. But it was his fast movement that scared you. It is no accident that there were no injuries, he has control over his mouth. Speed means that he is trying to tell the "puppy" to cool it down, wolves don't lazily hand out discipline, an adult will move fast and deliberately but the intent is never to injure the pup.
Chaining dogs is not a solution, ever, you could every easily end up with a socially crippled dog that is very dangerous. Each biting case need to be treated differently. Chaining him may keep him away from your family but to chain an animal that has never been treated like will be shocked by it, that risks incalculable damage to an animal that needs to be socialized. If anything it makes him more prone to bite, frustration at not knowing why he is suddenly outside 24/7 can very easily turn to anger or fear and develop into a biter. Turn him over to a shelter for a new home, anything, but please don't chain him, no one is being helped here.