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I'm trying, but you already know. Doesn't seem real still.
I'm doing more just lately though, so at least I'm not a complete zombie right now.
I think the secret is to not expect too much of yourself. It is like losing a limb, you have to relearn how to live with the new you. If I might make a suggestion there is a site called widownet.org that is a big help. It is a forum and everyone there is widowed and sometimes it really helps to have others who are going through the same thing to talk to. I know it really helped me. Its been 6 years for me and I have to admit I don't know if I would have made it through that first awful year without that site.
I'm trying, but you already know. Doesn't seem real still.
I'm doing more just lately though, so at least I'm not a complete zombie right now.
I think the secret is to not expect too much of yourself. It is like losing a limb, you have to relearn how to live with the new you. If I might make a suggestion there is a site called widownet.org that is a big help. It is a forum and everyone there is widowed and sometimes it really helps to have others who are going through the same thing to talk to. I know it really helped me. Its been 6 years for me and I have to admit I don't know if I would have made it through that first awful year without that site.