Amish and Mennonites have very different 'rules' and each group is different too. Like us English, each family behaves different. I end up talking to my dad last night about the chicken head incident and some other small ongoing issues we have had. Guess many of the amish families around here are none too giving or thankful for any help the English offer. One lady took an Amish family back to PA to visit. 17 hour round trip, she was only reimbursed for gas and was never offered a thank you or invited in the house.