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No tar or feathers here. He IS NOT prepared for college, and the opportunity would be wasted at this point in his life. But he doesn't work with his hands, and doesn't want to. If he decides to stay in the military he will have a hard time advancing with no additional education. If he comes out and wants to go into law enforcement of any type, likewise. He is married at barely 19 and has a hole in his pocket where his money leaks out. His college fund is protected, or I guarantee it'd be gone. I'm waiting for signs of emotional maturity and the ability to live within his means before I cut it loose, and it'll take a court order so it's really up to him. If he chooses to go to college, or better still in his case, trade school that'll be great. I'd really like for him to take advantage of any and all military benefits available for himself and his wife before they start the very large family they have in mind.
