Office Work, Part Deux: Professional Mayhen

[pbjmaker]

Weekend became extremely weird. Hubby had pressure on his chest for the last week, so before drill on Saturday he decided to go to the Dr. to get checked out. He was thinking some kind of congestion or something. Noooo they are thinking heart, so they send him to the ER BY AMBULANCE! We were in the ER for 3 hours and it is determined that it is not a heart attack. But nitroglycerin and oxygen seem to help ease the symptoms. So they have him stay overnight telling him they want to do an ultrasound of his heart to see if it's the lining of his heart being inflamed. He also has mildly high blood pressure. Well yesterday around 2:30 pm when he is getting extremely cranky they come in and tell him "Oh there is no one to do testing on Sundays"

So now he is there another night and now they are going to do a stress test AND the ultrasound today.

I took him my laptop yesterday to play his video game on (Lord of the Rings online) and that has helped tame the beast a little bit.

But then he woke up at 4 this morning and decided to call me because he couldn't remember the password to my laptop.

I am going to work today and he is going to text me with what is going on.

Now I need to list the positives for this weekend that didn't go the way I wanted.

Got daughter Black Ops off CL for cheap
She did great in Powder Puff football
She made it to homecoming dance
I own a laptop to give to husband to occupy his restless self
I sold two more drakes
the coops are clean even if the house isn't

 

[call ducks]

Ultra sound, and stress test. Gee maybe he has an enlarged heart. My dad has a enlarged left ventricle. Hope he is fine. If O2 and Nitro are easing it maybe it has to do with his air intake?

 

[pbjmaker]

So far they have done blood tests, chest x-ray and ekg. The ekg was "off" but not alarming. chest, lungs clear.

 

[Southernbelle]

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Let the punishment fit the crime.. Well done grasshopper.

 

[Southernbelle]

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There has to be a story behind this somewhere.

 

[Southernbelle]

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Oh my goodness! Men are never good patients at the best of times and they're keeping him an extra day? I hope it turns out to be nothing, or at the least, something easily fixed!

How'd you take being woken up at 4am for a password? Under normal circumstances I would be pretty upset over that, but if DH was in the hospital....

Now I need to list the positives for this weekend that didn't go the way I wanted.

Got daughter Black Ops off CL for cheap
She did great in Powder Puff football
She made it to homecoming dance
I own a laptop to give to husband to occupy his restless self
I sold two more drakes
the coops are clean even if the house isn't

Wow, you were a super busy lady! Congrats!

My coops are dirty and so is my house.

 

[maple]

Best to get that looked into with a fine tooth comb. The heart is nothing to not take serious. And I could have told you nothing would happen on Sunday but at anyrate, he's in the best place to be if anything were to have happened, says the girl with a sick heart.


ok, so get this... before 6 am this morning I get a text from the evil one saying it's his girlfriend's teenage daughter's 18th birthday and could the girls call her? Really? He doesn't call to remind us if it's grandma or grandpa or his sister's (the girl's aunts) birthday and for some reason the girlfriend's family is supposed to get long distance calls to wish happy birthday?

Ok, so my girls don't wish MY sister's happy birthday...just my mom. It's not really a huge deal around here. My girls are little and their birthdays and thier friends birthdays as long as they are having a party seem to be what my girls mainly focus on. I am disgusted to get this call. I mean, for the 10 years of our marriage he would be the most evil person on and around all holidays and my birthday, to the point of making me cry and dreading each day a commercial posted anything about a holiday...in fear it would trigger another angry rant from him. He would speak to me angrily for 2 hours the night before Mother's day...and I mean constant talking to me ticked off (like the whole two hours straight...no breaks...constant angry rant) and angry about the holiday...to where if I tried to get a word in he would YELL louder until all I could do was look at the ground and sit there numb and in a daze and THAT would piss him off even more.

My girls have met this girl just this summer when they were on thier visit with their dad, where they were forced to call his girlfriends family by Aunt, Uncle, MeeMaw, and was told this girl was thier big sister. Seriously? Our divorce isn't finalized and they aren't married...yet. And my gosh, how long will this girlfriend realize he is bat shnit crazy before she dumps him and his sorry asped train he rode in on? And he wants my girls to start making birthday calls?


Am I overreacting or should I even give a shnit? Cuz part of me says...whatever, just ignore it. Another part of me thinks...if you don't do it then he'll be even more hateful...but then there's the abuse pattern again...I don't want to be made to feel I have to do something to keep him from being even more evil. And should I just ask the girls when they get home...it's so and so's b-day do you want to call her? Then if they do or don't...the decision is not made by me but the two people that it directly affects. I don't know. Part of me just wants to ignore it. I'm trying not to feel ticked off by this.

 

[maple]

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There has to be a story behind this somewhere.

According to fb her and wegots and wegots dd went to the fair and wegots dd pet a nekkid guinea and a fuzzy lionhead and didn't come home with either....but it looks like something did indeed follow nelly home?

 

[Southernbelle]

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His girlfriend is just turning 18?!?!

I must've missed that part - all this time he was dating and living with a minor!!!!!!???????!!!!!! How did he get away with that? Her parents were okay with it?

 

[maple]

No girlfriend's teenage daughter.