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LOL! we've done charts. He doesn't "see" them. I used to post things on the fridge thinking surely to god when he goes to fill his face......but no. nothing.
He used to have a woman come clean the house. When I was OTR I'd come home after being gone for weeks and the place would be trashed and I wouldn't be able to even sit down before I cleaned. He would get all bent out of shape about how I need to "relax". So instead of cleaning himself, his solution was to pay someone to do it for him. Of course I was making way more money then and didn't have 5 horses........
I don't get it either Batz. I mean, surely if you knew something was important to your loved one, you could force yourself to make it a priority, even if it seems totally ridiculous to you and you personally get nothing out of it. That's what love is, it's not just Warm Fuzzies and googly-eyes.