Hi PA people;
I'm Ann and have posted a few times, but mostly I lurk in the shadows and learn lots from you all!
Wanted to share that a bear and 3(!) cubs came to visit the yard and coop Monday...ran off when my Mom decided they were a little too close for comfort to the kitchen garbage can, which is just inside the screened sliding door. The mom ran off and cubs bolted up the tree when she closed the glass slider. Can't believe I missed seeing them, I was just out there (Madison township/Moscow) last weekend.
To Annie:
Our Charlotte has always been a handful... Her "mean streak" has always been there, very quick to anger and has a very sharp tongue...but is also the cuddly needy one of my girls too... A girl of extremes! But, her feisty nature has come in handy... She had a rough start medically, and came through it great! She also is nearing her black belt now. Her school teachers love her and tell us she is one of the kindest, most helpful kids to her classmates... (For the first couple of years we were sure they were talking about the wrong kid!) So maybe she won't grow out of it exactly, but will vent her frustration where she knows she'll be loved anyway....
And yes, I totally agree with the no nonsense, very consistent parenting...if you say no, mean it, and follow through on every consequence you set for her! Inconsistent parenting plus manipulative (aka smart!) kid equals big troubles all around, and bigger trouble down the road.
Hope you guys don't mind this newbie putting in my 2cents...
Ann