@PhillyDelcoChix , welcome (hopefully) to the neighborhood!

I live in Lincoln University, which if you’re coming from Philly is a little further west/south on Route 1 from Kennett Square. Sadly, a property like what you described is almost impossible to find. Housing boom put 2500-4500 sq ft McMansions on most buildable acreage, most of them with less than 1 acre zoning. Chester County farmettes (and, frankly, farmers) are a critically endangered species, and if you’re lucky enough to find anything, it will NOT come cheap! Be prepared, even over the Lancaster County border what you’re looking for will likely run you seven figures, which you probably already know if you’re looking in Chadds Ford and Brandywine Valley area. I hope you find something, I really do. Route 30 corridor (Downingtown, Coatesville, Parkesburg, even as far as Gap) might be a little less expensive than Brandywine, but I don’t know about inventory availability. I’ve been out of real estate for 20 years. Besides, if your husband works in Philadelphia, that means running down 30 every day, and it gets some nasty traffic sometimes (unless he prefers Amtrak, you can take that from Coatesville). Depending on how far you are willing to drive, you could try north of Route 30 around Honeybrook. That’s the Brandywine headwater, and it is quieter than where I am, close to the Maryland/Delaware border. I was born here and always dreamed of a nice little farmette (3-10 acres), but no dice for me. Good luck!