Goddess, Ellen...I know how hard this is...
When Slifer was so sick, I had made plans to stay up at my SIL's for a few days...I almost cancelled out on my mini vacation.
She held on until I had been home for almost a week before she went.
Ernie fed and watered her and Obelisk, but I KNEW that she wasn't going to get the care that I would've given her when I would've been there...
I can only say to "do what you think is best for her". She'll let you know when she's ready.

When Slifer was so sick, I had made plans to stay up at my SIL's for a few days...I almost cancelled out on my mini vacation.
She held on until I had been home for almost a week before she went.
Ernie fed and watered her and Obelisk, but I KNEW that she wasn't going to get the care that I would've given her when I would've been there...
I can only say to "do what you think is best for her". She'll let you know when she's ready.