Hopefully she has a good impact on your birds! I don't mind small crests at all, it's just those huge ones that they can't see past that I don't like.
The struggle with trimming them, ugh! I've had the same thing happen on multiple occasions. 

 When they're young still like that, they replace feathers so fast that it feels like you're constantly trimming them back, too.
If they were in BBS, I'd be out the door, driving my way to get them right now 

 I did have a thought of crossing the Whites to my bantams and then crossing back to produce large fowl in other colors, but I have enough on my plate at the moment with what I already have going on I think 
They have been getting along well again since Inara's time out yesterday, so so far so good... 

 This was them last night, little Judy Booty baby peeking out there. The other baby was in the back under Inara (hen on the right)'s chest.
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