True, I've had cockerels crow earlier than 10 weeks. So, scratch the 10-12 week suggestion. Listen for crows, watch combs and wattles, eventually look for hackle and saddle feathers. Or, post pics on BYC, ask others, and get 20 different answers (even if pullet or cockerel are your only options).12-16 weeks for saddles and hackles.....crowing can happen anytime.

I hope your baby pulls through, the others have made wonderful suggestions on caring for it, I would do the towel in a circle to offer it support for it's little head, I bought all pullets when I first got chickens, even then it's not a 100% guarantee that you will get all hens, I've since hatched my own and dug around the internet looking for ways to tell beyond waiting for them to crow or lay, I watched a couple of videos that people had made that showed using the wing method, I've been told it doesn't work for all breeds (mine are mutts) but it's the long short, long short for hens and the straight across for the feathers on the roo's. Done within the first week of life.