I'm a grown adult trying to persuade my husband to let me keep my roo!
We asked our direct neighbors before we got chickens. All were very supportive. Especially since we have children who will benefit from the responsibility of helping care for the chickens. We've given away 8 roosters to date I think.
(just to be on the safe side and have no neighbor complaints) However, when we had them, they did seem to crow throughout the day alot. Not just morning time. I would sleep late, and though you could hear them in the early a.m. in the coop crowing, it was so quiet behind coop walls that no one would notice. Especially if their property is not right next to yours. Once they were let out-was a different story though. They seemed to crow very loud or maybe I was just paranoid. I think bribing the old lady with fresh eggs would definitely work to your advantage. Who can resist FRESH, FREE EGGS?
I had to separate a chicken recently. I had her in my garage. I was amazed that she did not really stink. I am now trying to convince my husband to let us keep one, JUST ONE, roo in our large back bathroom at nighttime and through the early morning. I've read that people put a black cloth over the cage so that they don't start crowing early in the morning. So far--NO LUCK! But I'm still begging!
As far as you getting attached to that little guy-I feel your pain. Making my 7-year-old daughter give her roo up was one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do. I still regret it and she still tears up when his name comes up in conversation.
I have an exceptionally bright 10-yr-old son. I'm not embarrassed to say that he often proves me wrong. You remind me of him-with the power point and all! I'm proud that you took the time and effort to plead your case to your dad. He should be very proud to have a child like you. In this day and age, what kid begs for hard work, responsibility, life lessons and good clean fun? A GOOD ONE! Best of luck to you!