@localife I too have felt so alone and thought I would never find anyone that shared the same issues. No body understands my love for my little ducky, she is like my little baby and my husband thinks I've lost my mind lol. When I met with the woman I got my 3 ducklings from I had just randomly picked out two females and one male from a box, I had no clue that the one female I picked out had a disability until I got her home. Everyone told me to just take her back to the woman and just exchange her for another duck. But there was no way I could, I could tell the woman who had these ducklings didn't take good care of them and if I took her back they would have just killed her. I truly think that she was put in my life for a reason and I will never give up on her. There is a quote that I have always loved, its from the movie Seabiscuit, it goes, "You don't throw a life away cause he's a little banged up." and it is so true.
When I took her to the vet the other day I had the vet tell me that I should just euthanize her which caused me to become hysterical in the vet office but it also infuriated because she is perfectly healthy and happy. Sure she has a disabled leg but that no reason to kill her. Now if she was in tremendous pain, wouldn't eat or drink, and was just plain miserable then I could understand.
I do worry about her as she gets older and heavier but I will do anything and every possible to make her happy and healthy. I even though about building her a little wheelchair or kind of a sling with wheels to where she can put her legs through the sling and use her good leg to push herself around.
She's such a sweet baby, so loving and trusting. Her and I truly love each other ha ha
But I would absolutely LOVE if we could keep in contact and help each other out with our special needs feathered children ha ha ha