Post Your Crushes Thread 3.0

[LovePolish2]

Quote: Me dude? What did I do? haha

 

[Baby Chick]

What happened? :/

What could be so bad? Surely you don't really want the world to end. (And it's not going to )

Okay,now you are just over reacting,nothing is that bad.
The world ain't ending anyway

YES IT SO IS!!! My Ex bf whom I still really like but never told, and I were texting. And out of the blue he says "Hey I have a girlfriend so I'm not so sure we should talk that much."!! And I just said "Oh ok thats cool bye" Ok I haven't even texted him in the past 3 months & I just wanted to say hi cuz i miss him. And I was going to tell him that I really miss him two. Now I just want to stay in my room forever and cry!!!

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

Hahaha, yeah right. By the time I see him next (in the new year), that'll be old news. XD
Although, he, - even after about a week that I've somewhat recovered (still a lil unstable balance-wise) - is seemingly always careful and tentative of his next move whenever we're together. It kinda makes me feel good knowing he cares. However, I can only think of how bad he must feel, and how careful he thinks he needs to be. At least, even if he doesn't like me, I know he actually takes notice of what he did unlike other people I know. >->

Men are complex creatures. ( And to THINK they blame US for being hard to understand? ^^ ) When they like a girl they act like they don't. Watch to see if he treats you differently than other girls. What is he like? He is naturally very friendly and flirty, or awkward and shy? (My bf Peter is naturally very friendly and flirty, and when he seemed to be flirting with all the girls but me, I thought he didn't like me; when really he didn't even think he was flirting that was just his nature, and he was awkward and shy-ish around me because he liked me.)

BTW I wouldn't advise asking a guy out, they have this weird thing where they like taking the initiative on some things like that, as if it is 'their place' and makes them feel 'manly' or something. If he really wants to go out with you, but is afraid to ask, he will eventually bust..from my experience. Not always the case, tho.




....of course, my bf flirts with me now, but in a TOTALLY different way than what I took to be him flirting with his friends. There is like..a major distinction. LOL I would suggest you observe everything, now don't go like all creepy stalker, just observe. Watch the way he treats you and the way he treats other girls and see if there is a difference. Watch his eyes too.

If shows he cares a lot about you (like if you are hurt or something..did you get hurt? I was a bit confused about all of that), you are either
a) like a little sister and he cares deeply about you in a family-love way
b) a good friend, and he cares very much but on a friend-level
c) he likes you and might like to go out on a date with you (when a good good boy likes you, he cares a lot)


FROM MY EXPERIENCE. I could just be an idiot, tho.

 

[LovePolish2]

@Baby Chick: Not to be mean,but that is the reason your whole world is ending for you.....he is a boy,ok? One:you don't need one to be happy.Yes,I DO understand how it feels,it really hurts,but I didn't lock myself up,go do something you like,go hang out with friends and family,got pets? Go hug them,go have fun,don't stop living over some boy.
BE HAPPY,you are young,someday a really awesme boy will come and he will love you forever and do anything for you,but till then,GO BE HAPPY AND HAVE FUN! ((Hugs))

 

[Texas Wolf]

Men are complex creatures. ( And to THINK they blame US for being hard to understand? ^^ ) When they like a girl they act like they don't. Watch to see if he treats you differently than other girls. What is he like? He is naturally very friendly and flirty, or awkward and shy? (My bf Peter is naturally very friendly and flirty, and when he seemed to be flirting with all the girls but me, I thought he didn't like me; when really he didn't even think he was flirting that was just his nature, and he was awkward and shy-ish around me because he liked me.)

BTW I wouldn't advise asking a guy out, they have this weird thing where they like taking the initiative on some things like that, as if it is 'their place' and makes them feel 'manly' or something. If he really wants to go out with you, but is afraid to ask, he will eventually bust..from my experience. Not always the case, tho.




....of course, my bf flirts with me now, but in a TOTALLY different way than what I took to be him flirting with his friends. There is like..a major distinction. LOL I would suggest you observe everything, now don't go like all creepy stalker, just observe. Watch the way he treats you and the way he treats other girls and see if there is a difference. Watch his eyes too.

If shows he cares a lot about you (like if you are hurt or something..did you get hurt? I was a bit confused about all of that), you are either
a) like a little sister and he cares deeply about you in a family-love way
b) a good friend, and he cares very much but on a friend-level
c) he likes you and might like to go out on a date with you (when a good good boy likes you, he cares a lot)


FROM MY EXPERIENCE. I could just be an idiot, tho.

I read the first sentence and I already disagree

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

YES IT SO IS!!! My Ex bf whom I still really like but never told, and I were texting. And out of the blue he says "Hey I have a girlfriend so I'm not so sure we should talk that much."!! And I just said "Oh ok thats cool bye" Ok I haven't even texted him in the past 3 months & I just wanted to say hi cuz i miss him. And I was going to tell him that I really miss him two. Now I just want to stay in my room forever and cry!!!

I am sorry to say you are over-reacting, dear. After all..he is your ex, and he does have a girlfriend. /: Even if you still kinda like him, don't jeopardize his relationship if he's happy. But meanwhile, don't worry! There's probably some guy out there who likes you right now, or is waiting to! Try to get your mind off of him for a while, stay busy, and talk to lots of guys.

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

I read the first sentence and I already disagree

Are you a guy? Guys don't admit it. I've experienced lots of guys and their 'issues', as I like to call them.

No offense, I'm just being funny.



You seem rude to me.

 

[horsecrazychicklovingkid]

So, tell me how you disagree!

 

[Baby Chick]

Thanks HCCLK & LovePolish2 I needed that

And yeah Texas Wolf is rude

 

[Texas Wolf]

I am a guy, and I don't know how ya'll can put a smiley fce after saying I am rude.... weird