Post Your Crushes Thread 3.0

[SunnySkyFarm]

I don't see anything that indicates she's sad besides her avatar and profile picture............ is that what y'all are talking about?

 

[Megan Amber]

Yes, I'm assuming she has lost a family member. Now I'm hoping I was right!

 

[member 142084]

Loosing. You can PM her if you like. Since it is a personal matter.

 

[BlackLotus44]

What's the point of trying when things back fire at you? What's the point of living if everyone you love and know is slowly taken away from you? Like my brother Alex.

 

[LovePolish2]

What's the point of trying when things back fire at you? What's the point of living if everyone you love and know is slowly taken away from you? Like my brother Alex.

I am so sorry and I know you get that a lot and it can't change anything but I really am and if you want to talk you can pm me or I'll give you my email and you can talk to me all you want.

You can't give up,no matter how hard things get you got to keep going. Even when it is really hard,get out of bed and try to keep going. It's hard and I really know,but you just have to try....you'll have breakdowns,but always get back up.
I don't think your brother would want you to just give up and not want to live anymore...I don't think he'd want that.
This is really hard and I'm sorry. But don't stop trying or living.

 

[Megan Amber]

What's the point of trying when things back fire at you? What's the point of living if everyone you love and know is slowly taken away from you? Like my brother Alex.

The point of trying is for the rest of the people in your life. And for your self. Yesterday was the four months to the day that I lost my little brother, he was fourteen and my entire world, my buddy in our buddy system, the one I went to talk to about troubles. He used to sit on my bed behind me when I was on the computer and we would laugh and crack jokes. I love him so much and I can't stand the fact that he is gone. But I have my Mother and Father that need me to be strong where they can not be, my other little brother and little sister and my older brother, they all need me and so I carry on.

The point of living is all the people that would miss you when you are gone, and trust me there are more people that you even know of. People that love you and care for you and think about you. I am so very sorry for your loss, and as Morgan said I know you hear that all the time and it does not make a difference, but I truly am.

 

[LovePolish2]

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[BlackLotus44]

My brother is gone I'm in California because of my grandma, Lorie. Your right I shouldn't give up. I live on a farm with my mom and step dad. He fired me couple days back for the dumbest reason of all. I'm sorry for your loss too. A week before he got in an immense fight and now my brother lives somewhere else.

 

[member 142084]

Fuzz loss eats away at all of us.. You and your family are in my prayers.


You are in my prayers too Megan

We need to count our blessings and be grateful for the time we did have with our lost ones. To honor and cherish their memories. It is okay to cry and be sad. But not to stop living. All warmth peace and hope be with all of you. You will live on, and there will be joy, if you let yourself have it. Many hugs

 

[TechnoCat]

Alright. I don't mean to come off strong, but I've faced a lot of hardship, loss, and pain in my life and I just need to tell all of you something.

I just wanna say if you’ve ever attempted suicide, cut, purged or have done any type of intentional self harm (like myself) and you’re still alive and you think no one cares, do me a favor and think again you beautiful human being because I care. I may not know you and all that shtick but you overcame it and you’re here, I’m so proud of you. I love you so much so make it, make it for me. Because if I lose ANY of you, I'll feel lost myself.

ETA: And I know I can be quite rude because I have a (pardon my profanities, I'm sorry if any of you take offense) no-bullsh*t attitude but that's just because of all I've faced in my life. But even IF I am rude to you, don't think I hate you or don't like you because the truth is that I love every one of you and you'll just have to forgive me.