Post Your Crushes Thread 3.0

[member 142084]

Thanks for the advice and virtual hugs. c: What's shocking me is that I'm not as sad as I really thought I'd be... I guess I knew in the back of my brain that long distance relationships are not for me. I need that physical closeness [hug when I'm sad, etc.] and I just knew that even if we went through with a relationship, it wouldn't last long. I think he knew that too.

They can work if you make up your mind for it too. But friendship is important to have first As far as hugs.. you need to let family help you with that and build up a healthy relationship with them. Relying on a guy for that unless he is to be your life mate can cause repercussions to your emotional health.

Military people manage long distance relationships all the time FYI And it is not because I am telling you to be with him, I am telling you to not believe that stereotype, If it is meant to be you better believe it will last!

 

[Orchidsilkie]

This guy is in the hospital. Don't have (Much) of a crush on him, just thought I would let you guys know.

 

[MalMom]

This guy is in the hospital. Don't have (Much) of a crush on him, just thought I would let you guys know.

Who is he?

 

[BrokenBrownie]

Okay, there's this guy who I have been best friends with for a while, and I started liking him. I hated myself for feeling that way but just the other day he asked me out. I said yes, but I don't know how to handle this without ruining the bond we had. 0.o Yeah so I figured I'd post on here haha.

 

[member 142084]

Okay, there's this guy who I have been best friends with for a while, and I started liking him. I hated myself for feeling that way but just the other day he asked me out. I said yes, but I don't know how to handle this without ruining the bond we had. 0.o Yeah so I figured I'd post on here haha.

Personally I find it odd that people feel this way. You should be with your best friend! That is the major part of a relationship. You already know each other. I was friends with my husband. Not close, but friends, and then we became more. However I believe in waiting until you are married for certain things, if you do then you won't have to worry about as far as ruining bonds. Love each other, and consider them a a potential person to spend the rest of your life with. Kiss, enjoy each others company.. but nothing more. Such things should wait, for many reasons I can give you. Intimate and deep reasons.

I would say congratulations! That is great news

And if things go down hill.. not everything is meant to b.. even friendship. And for guys, many (not all ) are friends because there is some attachment, attraction, or affection felt. They cannot help it it is in their nature, an there is nothing wrong with it.

 

[SilkiesForEver]

This guy is in the hospital. Don't have (Much) of a crush on him, just thought I would let you guys know.

That's not Toby Turner (Tobuscus) is it?

 

[LovePolish2]

My handsome man

 

[member 142084]

I want to bring him home *fight* LOL joking. But he is co cute!

 

[LovePolish2]

I want to bring him home *fight* LOL joking. But he is co cute!

Never!! Everyone is wanting to take him!! MY baby

I love him

 

[member 142084]

LOL